Hey there!

Welcome to my page, I'm Nicka, I'm a Black woman Sapphic (or gay), who lives in London, and I love to write. I am a late bloomer -So I'm learning this ting too! I have survived child abuse and domestic violence. I suffer with mental health issues (mainly anxiety) and I use my website to share my experiences from my past and present in the efforts that it will help someone else to help heal themselves.


The topics I speak on vary, from my experience with my mental health, racism and sexism. Whilst these issues are heavy I do like to speak on Spirituality, my culture (Caribbean) and other things that make me happy- please expect lots of pictures of animals particularly my two cats- Tia and Cleo.


I enjoy reading, crafting and just generally being creative, I am also the ultimate thrift queen, so do keep an eye out for my budgeting posts and cheap self care guides.

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You will find that I have two galleries, one is for techniques, I found helpful in grounding me, when having a panic attack or general overwhelm for example. The other gallery is for images (and words) of freedom, whether expressed by myself or taken by myself. 

I also have a page for books that I am reading or recommend.

I have connected my socials so please do have a look and follow me if you want to keep up with my daily shenanigans

Lastly, if you would like to pay me for my work, you can do so via paypal (paypal.me/NickaLoves), ko-fi or cashapp (£curlsandhoops)


If you would like to get in touch please, email me at: nickaology@gmail.com or use the contact form, from the menu